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HOW TO DECIDE YOUR WEDDING STATIONERY STYLE

Hey darling! After our last post, we've decided to continue to give ourselves to you through regular posts that will hopefully inform and inspire you throughout the wedding planning or business building process (we will try to keep it even). We know that both of those stages in life can be stressful and overwhelming, and we only hope that by sharing our advice, we will be able to serve you as a friend and fellow woman.

Today we were thinking about how difficult it can be to decide what you'd like your wedding stationery to look like. It's easy to get caught up in a sea of beautiful invitations on Pinterest and just choose something that looks pretty, but we believe there's more to an invitation than beauty. Our focus is on intentionality when it comes to wedding invitations. We want your stationery to give your guests a preview of your wedding day in subtle and original ways.

First, think of every invitation you've ever gotten in the mail. Did you throw it away? Hang it on your fridge? Did you tear it open, or treat it like a piece of art? Our goal is for each of your guests to fall so in love with your invitation suite that they want to call you immediately with their excitement over it. Once you're on board with creating something beautiful, we find the little things that make you who you are and gracefully weave that into our designs.

Some ways to include personality and the wedding "preview" into your stationery is by choosing an accent color, possibly reflecting your wedding colors. If your wedding is going to be very cozy and intimate, maybe include a heartfelt note to each of your guests. If you're hosting your wedding in an art gallery and you and your future hubby are art fanatics, maybe choose a vellum overlay on top of a beautiful, abstract painting or drawing.

There are so many ways to infuse yourself and your wedding style into your invitations, you sometimes just have to get off of Pinterest, ask yourself a few simple questions, and leave the creating up to the professionals.

See our list of 7 questions to ask yourself to decide your invitation style below, and please don't be afraid to reach out for any suggestions or advice!


7 QUESTIONS TO TO DECIDE YOUR STATIONERY STYLE

1/ Do you like calligraphy or simple typefaces?

2/ Do you like color or subtle neutrals?

3/ Illustrations or keep it simple? (i.e. venue, crest, nature)

4/ Extremely detailed & informative or pare it down & put the rest on the website?

5/ Clean & modern or vintage & organic?

6/ List 3 hobbies, personality traits, or unique things about you as a couple.

7/ Use 3 words to describe your wedding style.


Xo,
C+A

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MY WEDDING DAY

My dream wedding looked like something straight out of the book, The Secret Garden. I always knew I wanted to have a small outdoor ceremony with a greenhouse reception (because I'm realistic about the temperamental Iowa weather). That being said, I've yet to find that perfect venue here in central Iowa. Instead I made due with a local Des Moines art and furniture warehouse space that features an expansive wall of windows looking out to a beautiful wooded ceremony space that overlooks downtown Des Moines. I'll admit that I didn't quite get my dream wedding... but I still got my dream wedding, if you know what I mean! Being surrounded by 150 people that we love was such a blessing and something I'll never forget.

THE CEREMONY SPACE

The day was unreasonably hot for June at 95 degrees with a 90% chance of thunderstorms scheduled to arrive in the middle of our outdoor ceremony and despite that, we took our chances! Ohh I'm so glad we did though, because nearly 30 minutes before walking down the aisle the sun came out and trickled through the trees creating those little dancing light beams that never cease to stop me in my tracks. The minimalist alter was lovingly made by Andrew and sat beneath the ceiling of trees. On a tree nearby was a linen banner calligraphed with the names of our wedding party and the aisle was lined with English garden-like pots of ferns and other greenery. Meanwhile, our friends and families filtered in and filled the chairs as we prepared to walk down the aisle.

OUR LOVE STORY TOLD

We knew we wanted to tell our love story at some point during the day, and what better time than right before the ceremony! The last minute decision to create a love story video, turned out to be a great way to give our guests a glimpse into our everyday lives as Cassie & Andrew and the love we have for each other. Photos of us growing up, going on dates, and traveling together preceded a video of my maid of honor interviewing each of us about our relationship and upcoming marriage that proved to be equal parts hilarious and sentimental. (read: Cassie & Andrew's Love Story)

THE CEREMONY

Our bridal party, made up of our closest friends and family members, started the ceremony off and lined the alter. My ladies wore french blue tulle skirts & ivory lace tops and the guys wore khaki suits with french blue ties. The flower girl and ring bearers were nothing short of adorable as they took their jobs mighty seriously! Finally, I made my way down the aisle with my mom on one arm and my dad on the other with tears in my eyes (I told the make up artist I didn't need waterproof mascara because I'm not a cryer. She insisted and I'm so glad she did!)

The ceremony was straight out of a storybook. Our pastor shared a very relatable message about marriage and love as butterflies danced around us (I promise I'm not making this up!). Andrew and I each shared our vows we wrote for each other, exchanged the rings, and recessed back down the aisle as husband and wife as the DJ played one of our favorite songs. Meanwhile, one of our ring bearer's who carried a baseball holding the first ring Andrew ever gave me, was bound and determined to deliver that ring by the end of the ceremony. All of a sudden we hear "Andrew, catch!" and a baseball is flying at us. Thankfully Andrew has more hand-eye coordination than I do!

THE RECEPTION

We made our way across the lawn to the light-filled warehouse space that was carefully decorated with vintage-looking plants and gold candlesticks. Almost immediately the sky opened up and poured, and just minutes later there was a full rainbow. (We're told that is good luck!) Set up for a cocktail-style reception, our guests filled the reception space as they mingled with each other and enjoyed our appetizer stations and cocktails. I'm sure you all know what comes next. We enjoyed the dinner, cake cutting, toasts, bouquet & garter toss, and most of all the dancing that ended the night. 

Needless to say, our wedding was better than our wildest dreams. The mere fact that half of our crew (Andrew's half) traveled all the way from New England to celebrate with us, was more than we could have ever asked for. Having these people together in the city we love so much was something we will never forget. This day was the perfect starting line for the adventure to come.

Xo,
C

Read: 12 Pieces of Advice from a Recent Bride

 

VENDORS

Venue: Sticks
Photographer: Ivory+Bliss
Flowers: Artisan Floral & Events by Saley
Hair & Makeup: Vesta Salon & Spa
Catering: Taste To Go
Cake & Pies: Nancy Ertz
Event Planning: Out of Box Productions
Dress: Anais Anette from a&bé Bridal Shop
Bridesmaid Skirts: Revelry
Groomsmen Attire: Men's Wearhouse
DJ: SBC Event Services
Stationery: Gatherie Creative

SOFIA SUITE

This timeless suite stole our hearts with its letterpress impressions and delicate use of typography. Sometimes we like to take the simple route and let the paper shine through, and our Sofia suite did just that! Foggy grey envelopes paired with soft ivory and deckled paper gives our sweet Sofia a touch of vintage elegance.

Stay tuned for more images of this suite (taken by Ivory + Bliss) to be featured in Smitten Magazine for their Issue 17, Intrinsic Issue, coming out in August!

Xo,
C+A

photography and styling by Cassandra Monroe
letterpress by Iron Leaf Press

CASSIE + ANDREW'S LOVE STORY

HOW WE MET

When we look back at the very beginning of our story together it's hard not to think that one tiny decision could have kept us from each other. In 2011 Andrew was living in his home state of Connecticut ready to take a leap of faith and move to another state to finish out his schooling. Somehow Iowa State University made it on his list and soon later he headed for the hills (or lack thereof). One may ask why an East Coast college guy would move to small town Iowa... I like to believe he thought the girls were prettier here. Little did he know he would meet me a little over seven months later!

I was still finishing out my final semester in high school when my best friend at the time went on a date with this guy named "Andy." Lucky for me they both didn't feel a connection and my friend thought that he was more my type and proceeded to give "Andy" my phone number. I was fresh out of a relationship at the time and I had my mind set on beginning my college career at Iowa State as a single gal. However, "Andy" had other plans. After a month and a half of badgering me to go on a date with him I finally gave in under the agreement that it would be as friends only and that I could call him Andrew. This was just the beginning of Andrew and I's friendship...

"JUST FRIENDS"

We quickly became best friends and texted non-stop. A few weeks later my family and neighbors were celebrating Easter and I felt bad that Andrew had no one to celebrate with since he was from out of state, so I invited him to join in our festivities. It took about thirty seconds for everyone to warm up to him and soon he was just another part of the family. Everyone was teasing us about being more than just friends but I held my ground.

Soon Spring semester was ending and Andrew was headed back to Connecticut. I stopped receiving texts from him and I began to think he finally gave up on trying to date me. It didn't take long for me to miss him and begin to realize maybe my feelings were deeper. Soon after, I received a text from him saying that he was in the hospital and his appendix had burst over two weeks prior, and he was recovering. I’ll be the first one to admit that I felt relieved that I didn’t miss my chance with him!

When he was back in good health and returned to Iowa he made it official and after a whopping six months of "just friends" he asked me to be his girlfriend.

FOUR YEARS LATER

After the most amazing four years with my best friend by my side Andrew planned a date to go to our favorite restaurant for an anniversary dinner. We often go to the same restaurant so this date was nothing out of the ordinary. At the time we were building our first home together just a few miles away so we decided to stop by after dinner to watch the sunset, which was not unusual either. It had rained earlier that day so the "yard" was more like a mud pit. We brought a blanket and a bottle of wine and cozied up on our pile of lumber that was soon to be our back deck. As always we discussed our plans for the house and the memories we hoped to make, and before I knew it Andrew was nervously balancing one knee on my sandal in the mud. Little did I know that would be our first big memory at our new home...

Now we are anxiously awaiting our wedding day to begin our married lives surrounded by friends and family!

 

FUN FACT: Although we grew up 1,200 miles apart, our moms grew up just down the road from each other.

 

ALL IMAGES BY IVORY + BLISS